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My Journey to Worthy of Wealth
Aligning Energetics and Building a Profitable Business
One thing the pandemic showed me was that I was doing it all wrong. Commuting, going into an office, devoting the majority of my day, most days per week to anything other than myself, my family, or whatever I decided gave me joy, was not the life I wanted to live any longer.
I’ve been working since I was 15 years old. As of this blog post, I’m 43 years old. That is 28 years of working. TWENTY. EIGHT. YEARS!
I cringe just thinking about it.
Through high school, university, and into adulthood. Moving abroad, getting married, having children. All of that working Monday-Friday, 9-5. But I did it. Because we all do it. Or at least, those of us who have been conditioned to. I didn’t know there was another way.
Even when I was on maternity leave with my kids, it didn’t occur to me that there was an option to not go back to working for someone else. That I could do things differently.
But, once I saw the light, I couldn’t unsee it.
It’s been a long time coming, my friend.
Years in the making, but I’m finally here. I’m at a point where, not only do I know that things can work differently for me, but I’m actually starting to experience moments of freedom, ease, and simplicity I seek to be my new norm.
And this has not been easy. But as I’ve come to learn, that's my design.
To go slower than others. To take the scenic route as it were. Because for me the experience is the whole thing. It’s what makes the journey so rewarding, and teaches me the lessons I need to learn in order to make better choices in the future.
But the thing that’s really sunk in for me… the thing I’m constantly playing with and fine-tuning, is that alignment is the most important part. Truly, success cannot exist without it.
I mean, you can achieve your goals without alignment. But that’s the struggle bus way. The burnt out, afraid you might lose it all, never on steady ground kinda way.
Over the years, I have learned that alignment is the prerequisite to abundance, and my path is to guide you into expanding into the most aligned version of yourself. So that you can experience all the abundance you are meant to have in this life.
But Who Am I, and Why Should You Care?
I’m Matalya Onuoha, a certified mindset coach and Human Design Specialist with certifications in neuro-linguistic programming (NLP), hypnosis, among other things.
A few years ago, I was in a state of uncertainty. I didn’t know who I was or what I wanted to do. Tired of the 9-5 life, I wanted to be the mom who could take her kids to activities, enjoy midday park outings, and have freedom, ease, and flow in my day. But I didn’t know how to get there.
Discovering Human Design and Embracing My Purpose
In my quest for answers, I turned to a good friend, Tony Robbins (note: tony Robbin’s and I are not friends in real life… but I’m sure you guessed that 😉). I started going on long daily walks where I listened to a 15-minute walking meditation of his involving breath work, visualization, and gratitude. This daily practice led me to the realization that I should be a coach. Something that not that long before I’d considered to be a fake job (please forgive me my fellow coaches, but I didn’t know!)
Initially, I started as an accountability coach within an MLM. I was walking for health, working on my body and mindset, and wanted to help others do the same. I had a wealth of knowledge about nutrition from adopting a plant-based diet and researching it extensively. So sharing this knowledge felt natural, and I jumped in head first…
I nearly drowned!
To put things plainly, it didn’t work out. I tried to follow conventional methods like cold DMs and daily Instagram posts and stories. I made reels, used trending audios, and even took a social media marketing course. But showing up online in such a way was downright exhausting. And after a year and a half of showing up daily and pushing, pushing, pushing, my nervous system was shot. I was done.
I fell completely off the internet and was left wondering what the heck I should do next.
Later, after l better understood my design, I realized my process of learning, experimenting, and sharing was my key purpose in life. As a 1/3 projector in Human Design, my role is to guide others in new ways of doing things, but I learn and understand the best way forward through my investigation and experimentation.
So, while my days with the MLM were over, I did learn an important lesson. I definitely wanted to be a coach, just not that kind of coach, and I learned the exact type of marketing that DID NOT work for me.
Realizing there had to be a better way, I shifted my focus to mindset and NLP. I went out and received my certifications and in the process, I started releasing my limiting beliefs and negative thoughts. I quickly discovered and fell in love with Human Design. It felt like the perfect tool to pair with all the mindset and subconscious work I was doing. I found that Human Design provided deeper insights into my energetics and how I operate best, and allowed me to better understand my clients as well.
With this knowledge, I founded Rewrite Coaching, a culmination of all my experiences and knowledge.
Rewrite Coaching allows me to do things my way, aligned with my unique energetics. I found my voice, overcame self-doubt, and now, I’m here to help you do the same. Through Human Design, Gene Keys, and NLP, I guide my clients and use these tools in my 1:1 coaching and programs.
The Core of Rewrite Coaching
Rewrite Coaching is designed to help you embrace your uniqueness, release limiting beliefs, and build a profitable brand without the struggle and frustration. Everyone experiences moments of doubt and frustration, but recognizing these moments and moving past them is crucial.
Our limiting beliefs don’t sound crazy to us. They seem logical, and people around us might even agree. This conditioning can hold us back. To build an energetically aligned business, you need to let go of these limiting beliefs. That’s where I come in.
Understanding Human Design and Its Importance
Human Design is a system that combines astrology, the I Ching, Kabbalah, and the Chakras to create a unique blueprint for each individual. It provides insights into your strengths, challenges, and how you interact with the world. Understanding your Human Design helps you align with your true self, leading to greater success and fulfillment. It’s a comprehensive system that offers a deep dive into your personal energetics, allowing you to understand and embrace your true nature.
How Human Design Helped Me
When I discovered Human Design, it was like a lightbulb moment. I understood why certain strategies didn’t work for me and how I could approach my business in a way that felt natural and energizing. As a projector, my role is to guide and lead, not to hustle and grind or work endless long hours, even if I enjoy what I’m doing. This understanding changed everything for me. It provided a framework that allowed me to align my business practices with my natural strengths and tendencies, creating a more fulfilling and sustainable path to success.
The Rewrite Method: Combining Human Design, Gene Keys, and NLP
So that framework I mentioned? That’s my prosperity alignment framework, or The Rewrite Method as I like to call it. It combines Human Design, Gene Keys, and NLP to help you reprogram your mind and align with your true purpose. This beautiful combination offers a complete framework for personal growth and self-discovery.
Here's a simple overview of each part:
Human Design
Human Design gives you a blueprint of your unique energy. It shows you the best way to live in a way that feels natural and true to yourself. It helps you understand your strengths and challenges, and how to interact with the world. By knowing your Human Design, you can make decisions that match your true self, leading to a more balanced life.
If you want to know more about your design, you can run your chart for free here, and while you’re there, download your free Mini Energy Blueprint.
Gene Keys
Gene Keys explores your genetic potential as a way to help you unlock your unique gifts. When you learn more about your unique frequencies via the Gene Keys, you know your life’s work. Your purpose for being here. Most importantly, you understand those abilities and how to use them in your life and work. By studying your Gene Keys, you know your purpose exactly how to use your inherent gifts to reach success and fulfillment.
This is what I deep dive into during my Genius Activation Reading.
NLP (Neuro-Linguistic Programming)
This is the really fun brain stuff because NLP gives us practical tools and techniques to reprogram our subconscious mind. More than just wishing, and visualizing. Actual instantaneous reprogramming! I kinda love it. But what I love most about NLP is that it helps us to overcome limiting beliefs and negative thoughts so quickly. It’s the not-so-secret shortcut I use with all of my clients. This is how it works… when you use NLP you can create new, positive thought patterns that support your growth. This affects how we approach the work we do, improves our communication, and relationships, and helps us reach our goals.
Techniques like hypnosis and EFT tapping also fall in the NLP category and are what I work with in my single sessions as well as longer-term private coaching clients.
The magic of the Rewrite Method is that combines all of these things, Human Design, Gene Keys, and NLP to help you learn about yourself and quickly align with the ideal version of you. The version that is living a life on purpose.
Embracing Self-Worth and Aligning with Wealth
Building a successful business that suits you is a journey with its ups and downs, full of both challenges and opportunities. It means constantly learning, adapting to changes, and pushing through obstacles. By being yourself, letting go of doubts and fears, and taking consistent action, you can create a profitable and lasting business that truly reflects who you are, showcasing your unique values and vision.
I'm here to help you every step of the way. That’s my purpose. I offer guidance, support, and personalized strategies to ensure your success. Together, we'll dive deep into understanding your Human Design, giving you insights into your natural strengths and best ways of working. We'll also unlock your potential with Gene Keys, exploring your life's purpose and innate gifts, and reprogram your mind with powerful NLP techniques to overcome limiting beliefs and build a mindset for success. Accessing the version of you who knows they are worthy of wealth.
I invite you to follow me along on my own journey, and reach out if you ever need help on your own.
